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Cognitive dissonance in your life
This 8-minute anonymous survey (25 questions) is conducted by the
Autistic Collaboration Trust
and is sponsored by
S23M
. Many thanks for your participation!
AutCollab.org has been active in researching cultural and psychological safety from an intersectional perspective. We now explore the level of cognitive dissonance that is generated by the societies that people are embedded in.
This overview
provides further context. The results of this research will be published via AutCollab.org and will inform the education services we provide to healthcare professionals and education providers.
To participate, please answer all questions based on your own experiences within your current cultural context.
This survey explores 21 social scenarios. For each scenario you are asked to think about the following questions
a. How do you feel? b. How does society expect you to feel? c. How do your friends expect you to feel? d. How does your life partner expect you to feel?
and choose one of the following answers
1. Really bad 2. Somewhat bad 3. Neutral 4. Somewhat good 5. Really good 6. Could not do this (for example due to ethical concerns) 7. Not applicable (for example if you don't have a life partner)
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1.
Demographics: In what country do you live?
(Required.)
Afghanistan
Albania
Algeria
Andorra
Angola
Antigua and Barbuda
Argentina
Armenia
Australia
Austria
Azerbaijan
Bahamas
Bahrain
Bangladesh
Barbados
Belarus
Belgium
Belize
Benin
Bhutan
Bolivia (Plurinational State of)
Bosnia and Herzegovina
Botswana
Brazil
Brunei Darussalam
Bulgaria
Burkina Faso
Burundi
Cabo Verde
Cambodia
Cameroon
Canada
Central African Republic
Chad
Chile
China
Colombia
Comoros
Congo
Costa Rica
Côte D'Ivoire
Croatia
Cuba
Cyprus
Czech Republic
Democratic People's Republic of Korea
Democratic Republic of the Congo
Denmark
Djibouti
Dominica
Dominican Republic
Ecuador
Egypt
El Salvador
Equatorial Guinea
Eritrea
Estonia
Ethiopia
Fiji
Finland
France
Gabon
Gambia
Georgia
Germany
Ghana
Greece
Grenada
Guatemala
Guinea
Guinea Bissau
Guyana
Haiti
Holy See
Honduras
Hungary
Iceland
India
Indonesia
Iran (Islamic Republic of)
Iraq
Ireland
Israel
Italy
Jamaica
Japan
Jordan
Kazakhstan
Kenya
Kiribati
Kuwait
Kyrgyzstan
Lao People’s Democratic Republic
Latvia
Lebanon
Lesotho
Liberia
Libya
Liechtenstein
Lithuania
Luxembourg
Madagascar
Malawi
Malaysia
Maldives
Mali
Malta
Marshall Islands
Mauritania
Mauritius
Mexico
Micronesia (Federated States of)
Monaco
Mongolia
Montenegro
Morocco
Mozambique
Myanmar
Namibia
Nauru
Nepal
Netherlands
New Zealand
Nicaragua
Niger
Nigeria
Norway
Oman
Pakistan
Palau
Panama
Papua New Guinea
Paraguay
Peru
Philippines
Poland
Portugal
Qatar
Republic of Korea
Republic of Moldova
Romania
Russian Federation
Rwanda
Saint Kitts and Nevis
Saint Lucia
Saint Vincent and the Grenadines
Samoa
San Marino
Sao Tome and Principe
Saudi Arabia
Senegal
Serbia
Seychelles
Sierra Leone
Singapore
Slovakia
Slovenia
Solomon Islands
Somalia
South Africa
South Sudan
Spain
Sri Lanka
State of Palestine
Sudan
Suriname
Swaziland
Sweden
Switzerland
Syrian Arab Republic
Tajikistan
Thailand
The former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia
Timor-Leste
Togo
Tonga
Trinidad and Tobago
Tunisia
Turkey
Turkmenistan
Tuvalu
Uganda
Ukraine
United Arab Emirates
United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
United Republic of Tanzania
United States of America
Uruguay
Uzbekistan
Vanuatu
Venezuela (Bolivarian Republic of)
Vietnam
Yemen
Zambia
Zimbabwe
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2.
Demographics: What is your age?
(Required.)
Under 18
18-24
25-34
35-44
45-54
55-64
65+
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3.
Demographics: Social categories you identify with
(Required.)
Neurodivergent
Autistic
LGBTQIA+
Disabled
Indigenous (Māori, Aboriginal, Torres Strait Islander, First Nations, etc.)
Non-white / non-European origin
Member of a marginalised culture (ethnicity and/or religion)
None of the above apply
*
4.
Giving someone a gift that helps meet their basic needs
(food, tool, clothes, accommodation, etc.)
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
5.
Receiving a gift that helps meet your basic needs
(food, tool, clothes, accommodation, etc.)
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
6.
Embarking on a long-term joint venture with a trusted friend, agreeing to invest equally and share both risks and rewards
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
7.
Offering employment to a well qualified candidate who will report to you, based on the standard corporate employment contract of your employer
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
8.
Firing a well qualified employee who reports to you due to bad economic outlook
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
9.
Writing a job application for a corporation or big government department
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
10.
Accepting employment based on the standard corporate employment contract of an employer
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
11.
Marketing & selling services and products to a corporation or big government department
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
12.
Writing a job application for a small company that is delivering valuable services
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
13.
Accepting employment based on the standard employment contract of a small company that is delivering valuable services
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
14.
Offering your services and products to a small company that is delivering valuable services
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
15.
Helping your life partner who has asked for assistance
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
16.
Asking your life partner for help
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
17.
Helping a trusted friend who has asked for assistance
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
18.
Asking a trusted friend for help
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
19.
Helping your corporate employer who has asked for unpaid overtime
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
20.
Asking your corporate employer for help because you are struggling economically
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
21.
Agreeing to a raise in rent by your landlord
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
22.
Asking your landlord for help because you are struggling economically
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
23.
Offering help to a stranger
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
*
24.
Asking a stranger for help
(Required.)
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do you feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does society expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How do your friends expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
How does your life partner expect you to feel?
Could not do this
Really bad
Somewhat bad
Neutral
Somewhat good
Really good
N/A
25.
Are you able to identify the biggest source of cognitive dissonance in your life? If so, what is it?