Questions for Women, to Help the World!

Thank you for being here! This survey will take about 25 minutes to complete, depending on how in-depth you go. Your answers will help men and the women they're intimate with to have better, more pleasurable, more safe and connective sexual experiences. Thank you again.

Your responses will be anonymous, and by completing this survey you consent to let me (Taylor) anonymously publish your responses to help men in my upcoming courses, and in any other form of media: including my blogs, articles, podcasts, videos or other material related to this topic in any medium. If any of your stories are shared, they'll be shared under a false name for the sake of anonymity.

*IMPORTANT NOTE: In this survey the words "giving" and "receiving" are used to describe the "directionality" of sex acts performed. (I say this because it is possible to receive while "giving," but that is a conversation for another time).

**IMPORTANT NOTE: This survey is in reference only to consensual sexual relationships (past and current). It is not meant to gather data on sexual assault.

THANK YOU!

-Taylor

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* 1. Are you a woman?

Yes

No - (Just to be clear, this survey is only for women. If you are not a woman, please do not complete this survey. Thank you).

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* 2. What words do you associate with anal sex?
(Please select all that apply).

Sexy

Naughty

Dirty

Sacred

Surrender

Taboo

Pleasure

Liberating

Relaxing

Intimate

Opening

Healing

Wrong

Bad

Sinful

Orgasmic

Intense

Challenging

Hot

Performative

Receptive

Obligation

Painful

Pornographic

Transformational

Negative

Positive

Connective

Vulnerable

Other (please specify)

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* 3. Have you ever received any kind of anal stimulation from a man? (Fingers, tongue, toys, penis, etc. Not necessarily penetrative.)

Yes

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* 4. What kinds of anal stimulation have you received from a man at least once in your life?
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of my anus (but not going in)

Single finger penetration

Multiple finger penetration

Anal fisting

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Anal penetration with a sex toy

External stimulation with a toy or vibrator

Penis touching my anus but not going in

Almost penetration with a penis (just the tip)

Full penetrative anal sex with a penis

N/A - I've never received anal stimulation.

Other (please specify)

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* 5. What kinds of anal stimulation do you enjoy receiving?
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of my anus (but not going in)

Finger penetration with no other genital stimulation

Finger penetration while my vagina is also being fingered

Finger penetration while my clitoris is being stimulated

Finger penetration while having full penetrative (penis in vagina) sex

Multiple finger penetration

Anal fisting

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Anal penetration with a sex toy

External stimulation with a toy or vibrator

Penis touching my anus but not going in

Almost penetration with a penis (just the tip)

Full penetrative anal sex with a penis

I do not like receiving anal stimulation

N/A - I've never received anal stimulation.

Other (please specify)

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* 6. Which kinds of anal stimulation would you LIKE to experience receiving from a man? (Either again, or trying for the first time).
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of my anus (but not going in)

Finger penetration with no other genital stimulation

Finger penetration while my vagina is also being fingered

Finger penetration while my clitoris is being stimulated

Finger penetration while having full penetrative (penis in vagina) sex

Multiple finger penetration

Anal fisting

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Anal penetration with a sex toy

External stimulation with a toy or vibrator

Penis touching my anus but not going in

Almost penetration with a penis (just the tip)

Full penetrative anal sex with a penis

I do not like receiving anal stimulation

N/A - I've never received anal stimulation.

Other (please specify)

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* 7. Assuming the context is right, what kinds of anal stimulation would you be open to receiving if you were asked? (Either again or for the first time).
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of my anus (but not going in)

Finger penetration with no other genital stimulation

Finger penetration while my vagina is also being fingered

Finger penetration while my clitoris is being stimulated

Finger penetration while having full penetrative (penis in vagina) sex

Multiple finger penetration

Anal fisting

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Anal penetration with a sex toy

External stimulation with a toy or vibrator

Penis touching my anus but not going in

Almost penetration with a penis (just the tip)

Full penetrative anal sex with a penis

I do not like receiving anal stimulation

N/A - I've never received anal stimulation.

Other (please specify)

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* 8. Have you ever asked for anal stimulation of any kind from a man? (Fingers, tongue, toys, penis, etc. Not necessarily penetrative.)

Yes

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* 9. Have you ever chosen NOT to receive any kind of anal stimulation from a man? (If so, why?)
(Please check all that apply).

I didn't feel turned on enough

I didn't feel safe enough

There was a lack of communication with the man

There was a lack of care from the man

I didn't feel connected enough with the man

I simply wasn't interested

I felt objectified by the man

I had fears around cleanliness

I desired more cleanliness (without fear)

I was afraid of physical pain

I was afraid of emotional pain

I was afraid of being vulnerable

Because of my trauma from a previous sexual assault

I felt rushed by the man

I tried in the past and didn't enjoy

I have never avoided or said no to any anal stimulation.

Other (please specify)

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* 10. Potential trigger warning - Deep breath...
Have you ever bypassed your boundaries and allowed yourself to receive anal stimulation from a man when you didn't want it? If so, why?
(Please select all that apply).

Yes - because I felt obliged to

Yes - because I felt like it was my "duty" to please him

Yes - because I feared his reaction if I said no

Yes - because I feared for my safety if I said no

Yes - because I feared losing connection with him if I said no

Other (please specify)

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* 11. If so, how did this impact your relationship/connection with this man?

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* 12. If so, how could this situation have gone differently?

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* 13. Have you ever given anal stimulation of any kind to a man? (Fingers, tongue, toys, strap-on, etc. Not necessarily penetrative.)

Yes

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* 14. What kinds of anal stimulation have you given to a man?
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of his anus (but not going in)

Single finger penetration

Multiple finger penetration

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Penetration from a sex toy (not a strap on)

Full penetration sex with a strap-on (pegging)

I have not given anal stimulation to a man

Other (please specify)

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* 15. What kinds of anal stimulation do you ENJOY giving to man?
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of the anus (but not going in)

Single finger penetration

Multiple finger penetration

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Penetration from a sex toy (not a strap on)

Full penetration sex with a strap-on (pegging)

None of the above

Other (please specify)

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* 16. If you have pegged a man (penetrated him with a strap-on), how did this impact your relationship & connection?
(Please check all that apply, and share any additional thoughts & feelings in the "other" option).

I felt more connected with him

I felt less connected with him

It did not affect my connection with him

I felt more attracted to him

I felt less attracted to him

It did not affect my attraction to him

It increased our sexual charge

It decreased our sexual charge

It had no impact on the sexual charge in our relationship

After pegging, I viewed him as more of a man

After pegging, I viewed him as less of a man

Pegging did not change how I viewed him

I have never pegged a man

Other (please specify)

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* 17. Assuming the context was right, what kinds of anal stimulation would you be open to giving to man if he asked? (Either again or for the first time).
(Please select all that apply).

Fingers touching the outside of the anus (but not going in)

Single finger penetration

Multiple finger penetration

Analingus (tongue licking anus)

Tongue-fucking (tongue going in and out)

Penetration from a sex toy (not a strap on)

Full penetration sex with a strap-on (pegging)

None of the above

Other (please specify)

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* 18. Have you ever fantasized about receiving some kind of anal stimulation from a man?

Yes

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* 19. Have you ever fantasized about giving some kind of anal stimulation to a man?

Yes

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* 20. Have you ever fantasized about receiving penetrative anal sex (penis in anus) from a man?

Yes

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* 21. Have you ever fantasized about "pegging" a man? (Full penetrative anal sex where you penetrate the man with a strap-on you're wearing).

Yes

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* 22. Did you know that it's possible for women to experience an anal orgasm? (And this is possible for all bodies).

Yes

I don't believe this.

I believe it's possible, but I don't believe it's possible for me

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* 23. Have you ever experienced an anal orgasm?
(Please select all that apply).

Yes, with fingers

Yes, with a toy

Yes, with analingus

Yes, with penile penetration

Yes, with strap-on penetration

Yes, with other stimulation

Almost!

Not sure...

Never

Other (please specify)

Questions for Women, to Help the World!

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* 1. Are you a woman?

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* 2. What words do you associate with anal sex?(Please select all that apply).

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* 3. Have you ever received any kind of anal stimulation from a man? (Fingers, tongue, toys, penis, etc. Not necessarily penetrative.)

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* 4. What kinds of anal stimulation have you received from a man at least once in your life?(Please select all that apply).

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* 5. What kinds of anal stimulation do you enjoy receiving?(Please select all that apply).

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* 6. Which kinds of anal stimulation would you LIKE to experience receiving from a man? (Either again, or trying for the first time).(Please select all that apply).

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* 7. Assuming the context is right, what kinds of anal stimulation would you be open to receiving if you were asked? (Either again or for the first time).(Please select all that apply).

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* 8. Have you ever asked for anal stimulation of any kind from a man? (Fingers, tongue, toys, penis, etc. Not necessarily penetrative.)

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* 9. Have you ever chosen NOT to receive any kind of anal stimulation from a man? (If so, why?)(Please check all that apply).

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* 10. Potential trigger warning - Deep breath...Have you ever bypassed your boundaries and allowed yourself to receive anal stimulation from a man when you didn't want it? If so, why?(Please select all that apply).

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* 11. If so, how did this impact your relationship/connection with this man?

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* 12. If so, how could this situation have gone differently?

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* 13. Have you ever given anal stimulation of any kind to a man? (Fingers, tongue, toys, strap-on, etc. Not necessarily penetrative.)

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* 14. What kinds of anal stimulation have you given to a man?(Please select all that apply).

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* 15. What kinds of anal stimulation do you ENJOY giving to man?(Please select all that apply).

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* 16. If you have pegged a man (penetrated him with a strap-on), how did this impact your relationship & connection?(Please check all that apply, and share any additional thoughts & feelings in the "other" option).

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* 17. Assuming the context was right, what kinds of anal stimulation would you be open to giving to man if he asked? (Either again or for the first time).(Please select all that apply).

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* 18. Have you ever fantasized about receiving some kind of anal stimulation from a man?

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* 19. Have you ever fantasized about giving some kind of anal stimulation to a man?

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* 20. Have you ever fantasized about receiving penetrative anal sex (penis in anus) from a man?

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* 21. Have you ever fantasized about "pegging" a man? (Full penetrative anal sex where you penetrate the man with a strap-on you're wearing).

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* 22. Did you know that it's possible for women to experience an anal orgasm? (And this is possible for all bodies).

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* 23. Have you ever experienced an anal orgasm?(Please select all that apply).

* 2. What words do you associate with anal sex?
(Please select all that apply).

* 4. What kinds of anal stimulation have you received from a man at least once in your life?
(Please select all that apply).

* 5. What kinds of anal stimulation do you enjoy receiving?
(Please select all that apply).

* 6. Which kinds of anal stimulation would you LIKE to experience receiving from a man? (Either again, or trying for the first time).
(Please select all that apply).

* 7. Assuming the context is right, what kinds of anal stimulation would you be open to receiving if you were asked? (Either again or for the first time).
(Please select all that apply).

* 9. Have you ever chosen NOT to receive any kind of anal stimulation from a man? (If so, why?)
(Please check all that apply).

* 10. Potential trigger warning - Deep breath...
Have you ever bypassed your boundaries and allowed yourself to receive anal stimulation from a man when you didn't want it? If so, why?
(Please select all that apply).

* 14. What kinds of anal stimulation have you given to a man?
(Please select all that apply).

* 15. What kinds of anal stimulation do you ENJOY giving to man?
(Please select all that apply).

* 16. If you have pegged a man (penetrated him with a strap-on), how did this impact your relationship & connection?
(Please check all that apply, and share any additional thoughts & feelings in the "other" option).

* 17. Assuming the context was right, what kinds of anal stimulation would you be open to giving to man if he asked? (Either again or for the first time).
(Please select all that apply).

* 23. Have you ever experienced an anal orgasm?
(Please select all that apply).