Kinky Shepherd - Manchester, NH! Question Title * 1. Welcome to Kinky Shepherd, Manchester, NH!We're so glad to have you!First things first! Get comfortable! Be you!Get a beer, a glass of wine, spirit, coffee, water.... whatever your jam is, because this puppy is going to be a fun ride. You've got a lot of cool questions coming up designed to match you with people just like you, who love all the same things you do. All of the good stuff, none of the bad stuff! Let's have some fun!Remember, we're building this together, and you're so important! So, what's your Fetlife name? Question Title * 2. What is your height? Question Title * 3. What's your age? Question Title * 4. What gender do you identify with? Non-binary gender Trans-male Trans-female Gender Fluid Intersex Bigender Pangender Two-Spirit Demigender Butch Male Female Ambigender Agender Trigender Femme Androgyne Other (please specify) Question Title * 5. What is your body size? Athletic Skinny Little Extra I'm fluffy I am heavy and sexy! Question Title * 6. What is your eye color? Amber Blue Brown Gray Green Hazel Red Other (please specify) Question Title * 7. What is your ethnicity? Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander Black or African American Hispanic or Latino Asian or Asian American American Indian or Alaska Native White or Caucasian Indian Other (please specify) Question Title * 8. What is your zodiac sign? Aquarius (Jan 21 - 19 Feb) Pisces (Feb 20 - Mar 20) Aries (Sept 24 - Oct 23) Taurus (Apr 21 - May 21) Gemini (May 22 - June 21) Cancer (June 22 - July 22) Leo (July 23 - August 23) Virgo (Aug 24 - Sept 23) Libra (24 Sept - 23 Oct) Scorpio (24 Oct - 22 Nov) Sagittarius (23 Nov - 21 Dec) Capricorn (22 Dec - 20 Jan) I don't believe in Astrology/ I prefer not to answer Question Title * 9. What is your pubic hair situation? Chewbacca Neatly Trimmed Shaved Laser Hair removal from the death star It's Cute, deal with it. Question Title * 10. What is your preferred partner body height? Question Title * 11. What age range are you interested in? 18-24 25-34 35-44 45-54 55-64 65+ Question Title * 12. What genders are you interested in? Anything! Non-binary gender Trans-male Trans-female Gender Fluid Intersex Bigender Pangender Two-Spirit Demigender Butch Male Female Ambigender Agender Trigender Femme Androgyne Other (please specify) Question Title * 13. What is your body size preference? Athletic Skinny Little Extra Fluffy Heavier Whatever Question Title * 14. What is your preferred eye color? Amber Blue Brown Gray Green Hazel Red Heterochromia Color Contacts Other (please specify) Question Title * 15. What ethnicities are you interested in? It really doesn't matter to me. Black or African American Hispanic or Latino Asian or Asian American American Indian or Alaska Native Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander White or Caucasian Indian Other (please specify) Question Title * 16. What is your zodiac preference(s)? It's all good! Aquarius (Jan 21 - 19 Feb) Pisces (Feb 20 - Mar 20) Aries (Sept 24 - Oct 23) Taurus (Apr 21 - May 21) Gemini (May 22 - June 21) Cancer (June 22 - July 22) Leo (July 23 - August 23) Virgo (Aug 24 - Sept 23) Libra (24 Sept - 23 Oct) Scorpio (24 Oct - 22 Nov) Sagittarius (23 Nov - 21 Dec) Capricorn (22 Dec - 20 Jan) I don't believe in Astrology/ I prefer not to answer Question Title * 17. My partner's sign should align with mine. Really important Important A little important Not important I don't believe in Astrology/ I prefer not to answer Question Title * 18. What is your pubic hair preference? I am one with the Jungle! Bonsai Tree Shaved Scorched earth I'm okay with whatever! Question Title * 19. I have piercings on my... Question Title * 20. When it comes to people with piercings I like... Ears Eyebrows Nipples Genitals Tongue Lips None It doesn't matter to me. As many as possible! Other (please specify) Question Title * 21. When it comes to figuring out how my sexcapade will go, I tend to... Plan sex out as detailed as possible. Plan some stuff but leave room for adapting. Go with the flow. Question Title * 22. When it comes to confrontation, I tend to... Talk things out. Politely disengage because I DO NOT DO CONFRONTATION WELL. Make things funny, happy little accidents! Get defensive and totally take everything personal. (No one is going to pick this but kudos for self awareness if you do) Question Title * 23. If I am no longer interested in another encounter with a person, I will... Politely let them know why they are awesome but not for me! Ghost them... Haha suckers! Give it to them straight, no sugar coating. Truth hurts, but hey you learn from it, yeah? Question Title * 24. I am comfortable verbally communicating what I want to be done to me or how to improve a sexual encounter. I will tell everyone how to do the thingy! I really hope you tell me how I could have done better. Less is more, ya know? Question Title * 25. I like when people bend the rules a little bit. I'm into loose cannons, and bad boys and girls. Rules exist for a reason and we live in a SOCIETY! Rules can be broken sometimes. Question Title * 26. I like sex to be noisy. I hope other people hear us! Please don't talk, let me fuck you appropriately! The only thing we should hear is those juices slapping together! I wanna hear you. We should be grunting. Question Title * 27. When talking with a future potential partner, I prefer to... Fuck as quickly as we can! Take it nice and slow like a nice morning pie to be savored and enjoyed. Talk about all the deal breakers we have ahead of time so we can just not, or... yes please! Meet up within a day or two, or it probably won't happen. We know how this works. Question Title * 28. When joking around... I bow down to the shrine of silly. Jokes and seriousness both have their time and place. I prefer to be serious, and this is a silly question. Question Title * 29. I am always honest. No filter, baby! I will find the nice way to say the thing you should know. Oh I will never tell you the truth, because if I did, you'd probably lose your shit. (Let's be real, most people wont want to pick this, but if you're honest enough about yourself with this, we'll match you well with someone appropriate who would prefer not to know certain things) Question Title * 30. When it comes to talking... BE HONEST! I prefer to talk. I prefer to listen. Conversation is give and take. Question Title * 31. I like eccentric and unpredictable people. Love 'em! They make me uncomfortable. They're alright. Question Title * 32. I prefer people who are... Down to earth. Live in the clouds. Question Title * 33. Air flow is important to me in a room. Absolutely! Sometimes. Not a concern. Question Title * 34. I care about a tidy living space. Strongly agree Agree Neither agree nor disagree Disagree Strongly disagree Question Title * 35. I tend to run... Too hot. Pretty even. Too cold. Into glass doors... Question Title * 36. Air Conditioning is a requirement for me. Absolutely! Take it or leave it. Question Title * 37. I prefer music on during sex. Yes No It varies. Question Title * 38. When it comes to ambient background noise, I like... Question Title * 39. It's important that I have a real connection with someone. Question Title * 40. It is important to me that I feel like I'm unique and special to the person I am having sex with. Strongly agree Agree Somewhat agree Neither agree nor disagree Somewhat disagree Disagree Strongly disagree Question Title * 41. More honesty time! Help yourself by being truthful!It is important to me that the other person has an orgasm. I won't feel like I did a good job if they don't. Hey, who cares. We both had fun, you don't always need to cum, and we can just masturbate to the memories later, am I right? I'm in this for me. If they get off, great, but honestly, I'm just here to get off. Question Title * 42. It is important that I orgasm. Yes, or why are we even here? I hope so but if not that's okay. I definitely am not going to orgasm and I'm okay with that. Question Title * 43. It is important that I orgasm first. Yes, because then I can focus on you. No, I really don't care who orgasms when. I'm not sure. Question Title * 44. I want to have multiple orgasms in a dalliance.dal·li·ance/ˈdalēəns/noun a casual romantic or sexual relationship."Jack was not averse to an occasional dalliance with a pretty girl, because Jack was a slut"Wait, we learned a new word but I think you meant "sexual encounter" As many as we can get. Just the one, please, let's get there and do the thing! Doesn't matter to me if no one orgasms, still had a great time! Question Title * 45. I want to lead the sex. No, tell me exactly what to do! I like to mix it up. Yes, this is what we're doing and how we're doing it. Clear i We adjusted the number you entered based on the slider’s scale. Question Title * 46. When it comes to smoking cigarettes... I love smoking! Not a huge fan but I'll deal with it! Strongly prefer that you don't, come on man, that smell carries on! My Aunt Rebecca, God rest her soul, smoked like a chimney, and I hate it. Please no smoke anywhere around me! Miss you Becc! Question Title * 47. When it comes to smoking marijuana... I'm a smoker. I don't mind if you smoke. I prefer if you wouldn't smoke. I cannot be around a smoker. Question Title * 48. When it comes to using chemicals to enhance sexual encounters... Where's the party at??? Not really my jam, ya know. I'll try things, but, not the regular. We got all the chemicals we need in our brains, baby! Question Title * 49. If things get awkward... I can reset the moment and get us back on track. I'm probably going to find a way to leave the experience. I'm gonna have a panic attack. Question Title * 50. When it comes to other people being sweaty... Bring on the gladiators!! (Sweat shows we're putting in effort!) I don't mind sweat, great if you don't though. Yo, this is a desert and we're gonna keep it that way okay? (I do not like sweat) Question Title * 51. I like hairy people. Yes please, Chewbacca is my sexy spirit animal! Eh, groom yourself please and we're good. Hair kinda grosses me out. Question Title * 52. When it comes to smells... It's very important that my environment smell good. I don't care about smell at all. As long as nothing smells terrible, we're good. Question Title * 53. I like to feel... Special and different and important and I AM A PRINCESS! Like you notice the actual details about what I care about. Normal, everyone else is weird. Question Title * 54. I'm interested in... A one night stand, nice to meet ya! Please clean up before you go! Several casual meetings. A committed relationship. Getting to know you. Question Title * 55. When it comes to predictability, I prefer... As unpredictable as wiley coyote (for you youngsters Wiley Coyote was... nevermind). To know that I can absolutely count on them every time! ALL THE TIME. THEY ARE MY ROCK. I don't really care about what other people are doing. *shrug* Question Title * 56. When it comes to doing scary and unexpected things my tolerance for it is... I'm a total scaredy cat. Let's see where this goes. People should be afraid of me. Clear i We adjusted the number you entered based on the slider’s scale. Question Title * 57. My role preference is... Dom Sub Switch Top Bottom Slave / Property Masochist Sadist Boy Little Middle Big Daddy Mommy Baby Boy Baby Girl Daddy Dom / Little Girl Alpha Sub FinDomme Pay Pig Trainer Old Guard Mentor Swinger Cuckold Cuckqean Bull Other (please specify) Question Title * 58. I want to feel appreciated. It's very important to me that I feel like this was special. Take it or leave it. I don't care at all, I'm just here to have good sex. Question Title * 59. I would like to give control to someone I trust. Yes, I love when people throw me around and use me how they want. Sometimes, it depends on the situation. Absolutely not, I'm in control. Question Title * 60. I believe anything's possible. Yes! No, let's be real, not anything. Question Title * 61. I am comfortable with people having sex around me. Yes, and I love to watch them do it! Never done, but I'm open to it. Not for me. Question Title * 62. It's important to me that I receive compliments on my appearance. I need to feel special, please notice and compliment me. I could not care less, I know I'm awesome. I know you know I'm awesome. It's nice if you notice something, but let's not look too closely at me, please! Question Title * 63. When it comes to knowing whether or not I did a good job in the sexy sex... I need validation that I did a good job. I am confident and I know I did a good job. Question Title * 64. I need to know before we depart if the person wants to do it again. Please let me know so my expectations can be managed. Nah, let's just go with the flow. Question Title * 65. I like to feel vulnerable. Yes, intimacy is the most important thing for me. I'm not great at this but I'll show you mine if you show me yours. Nope, I am a solid suit of armor, you're not gonna learn any of my secrets! Question Title * 66. I would like it if people pushed my boundaries. I would like it if people pushed my boundaries. Excuse me, but boundaries are important and I will establish them clearly and you will respect them. I'm not really sure but I'm open to figuring stuff out. Question Title * 67. When it comes to being rejected... Please don't hurt my feelings. I roll with the punches, who cares, plenty of fish in the sea. Question Title * 68. I am okay with embarrassment. If I accidentally fart, I will fall apart and ghost you forever. Hey, there's always a good story. Embarrassment? You can't embarrass me at all! I'm Hulk Hogan! And I am gonna need you to snap it to a Slim Jim! Question Title * 69. I am okay with failure. Because we get back up, Bruce. I spiral like a Looney Toon when I think I've done something wrong. Failure is just learning in disguise. I never fail and I have no blindspots whatsoever. Happy little accidents. Question Title * 70. I am okay with ridicule. I can take shit but you better believe you gonna get shit, too. Please leave me alone, I don't want to be noticed. This kills me! I can take a joke but let's not get personal. Question Title * 71. I am okay with direct blunt honesty. Give it to me straight! Please sugar coat the information. I prefer to believe whatever I want and make the best interpretation of things! Question Title * 72. I am okay with shame. Shame is my jam! Please be nice to me. Question Title * 73. I am okay with regret. Because I can do better next time. I'm gonna hate this forever. Question Title * 74. If I see someone I would like to talk to, I go up and talk to them. Absolutely, I'm an extravert and you're welcome! No, people do that? That seems rude to disturb someone doing their thing. I wish I could, but I'm a bit nervous. Question Title * 75. I believe that doing something better in the future can change the context of a situation in the past. Yes, what happens next is whats most important. We always forgive but we never forget. Question Title * 76. I believe that everyone has a human experience when interacting with another person, and it's up to me to define it as a good one or a bad one. Yes indeed! We can do this and I'll show you how! No, people are pretty much shit. I have a hard time understanding people but I'm trying. Question Title * 77. I think that my trauma has made me a stronger person. I agree, and it's very important to me. Trauma? You mean like a bad time? Get over it. I've got a lot of baggage, and I'd prefer not to talk about it. Question Title * 78. When I am scared I am most likely to... Start talking a lot. Curse. Emotionally withdraw. Walk away. Hulk gonna Hulk! Question Title * 79. I like the ideas of secret affairs. Yes, I love dirty little secrets. No, I have trust issues and I need honesty and transparency, always. Question Title * 80. I want to be degraded and used. Please call me a filthy slut. Uh, no sir, I am a respectable human being and I drive a KIA SORRENTO. Question Title * 81. When it comes to bodily fluids and stuff, I am comfortable/not squeamish with... Sweat. Saliva. Semen. Blood. Period Blood. Urine. The one that isn't Urine. I'm basically a nurse. IDGAF! Let's get messy, we're here to have fun! Question Title * 82. I like to share my secrets with someone I'm intimate with. Yes, it makes me feel connected. I don't really like to share, I have a lot of trust issues. I am an open book. Question Title * 83. When it comes to chemical enhancers for sex... All of them, yes please! Sometimes is fine. Not really my jam. Question Title * 84. How I feel about penis size... Question Title * 85. I like Roleplay. Bitch, you know I went to Julliard! Yes, and... I'm willing to try, but be nice if I'm bad! It's not really my thing. Question Title * 86. I like ddlg / daddy dom, little girl. Absolutely, and I'm great at it. Never tried, but I'd be interested. Not for me, thanks. Question Title * 87. I like Ropeplay. I can lasso a steer from a hundred feet away. Never tried it but that seems interesting? Is it like, jump rope? (No, it's bondage). The only way I'm going to be confined is if Cirque du Soleil invites me up to be a part of their show. Question Title * 88. I like Ageplay. Yes, baby! Sometimes, but not always. I mean, if that's your thing, that's your thing, but let's just do it every now and then for funsies. This is not really my thing at all. I don't understand this, but I'm not here to judge. Question Title * 89. I like Sadism. I watched Dexter and I was like, "Ya know, this makes a lot of sense to me." (Yes) Everyone is a beautiful, special, little creature, and it would be terrible if I were to hurt that beautiful safe space! (No) Catch me on the right time of day, and I say heyo let's go! (Maybe) Question Title * 90. I like masochism. Please hurt me..... I need it... I need to feel the pain! (Yes) It's okay if you poke around with stuff, but I'm not really into causing pain just because. That's the CIA's job, not mine! (Maybe/Sometimes) Absolutely not! (No) Question Title * 91. When it comes to feet... You will lick mine like the royalty that I am. Feet are made for walking only. Forrest knew it. He just kept on walkin'... I think mine are gross, but I absolutely want to love yours! Other (please specify) Question Title * 92. I like Wax Play. Please look at all my candles! Yeah, I'd try anything once. No, thank you, that is not how candles are meant to be used! Question Title * 93. I need foreplay before penetration. Hell no, let's get to the main course! Yeah, I need a little kick start to get my motor running. I don't need it, but it adds to the fun. I'm slower than molasses in December, you're going to need to work for it! Question Title * 94. I like my sexual encounters to... Be as loving and cozy as possible! No ruffling these feathers! Let's fuck around, but you better not leave a mark on this pristine body of mine! Hey, let's not get ridiculous, but a nice, little mark on me for a brief while ain't so bad, please and thank you. Battle scars baby! Question Title * 95. I like watching people have sex. Yes, please! Not really my thing Question Title * 96. I like bruises. Scars of war, give em to me! No, thank you, not on this pristine body! Yes, but only where you can't see 'em. Question Title * 97. I like when people watch me have sex. Yes, please, I'm on stage and this is my moment! Uh, no, that door was supposed to be locked, thank you! I'm up to try it! Question Title * 98. I would like to have sex in public. As often as possible, and I hope we get caught! Once would be nice for the experience, and I hope we don't get caught. Public places are not for having sex! Excuse you! Question Title * 99. I like being cut. Yes please, let's make some scars. Not really, but I would try it. Absolutely not. My Body is a temple and you will respect it! Question Title * 100. I like the thought of people seeing me nude. Yes, please, I worked on this body! My privacy is important to me. This is something I haven't done, but I'm up for it! Next
